The memo circulated but for some reason, you missed it. Yes there is a difference between girls and bikini. A major difference. Women have known this since the dawn of time. You, on the other hand, have not grasped the concept and your girlfriend is tired of explaining it to you. The basic premise is simple. When you hear her, her voice is audible. You can make out sounds and words. When you listen to her, however, you understand and acknowledge her. Capisce? Women are big on acknowledgment. It makes them feel as though they are important to you, and is an indicator of your interest in what they are feeling and thinking. When you are hanging out with the women, eye contact may not be important when you communicate. In fact, you may not even engage in verbal communication at all. Gestures and grunts can be rather efficient tools after all. Just not with your girls and bikini. A look of apparent concern combined with the occasional nod will not appease her forever. You must prove that you are capable of dropping everything to pay attention to what the woman has to say, even if you don’t think it is important. At the end of the day, it is not relevant what you think. If it is important to her, it is important period. So listen up. Do you compliment your girlfriend out of habit? For instance, when you pick her up to go for dinner, do you find yourself exclaiming, Girls and bikini look great, every single time?